After reading the replies, I was planning on writing some heartfelt entry but most of everything that could be said is said and self-reflection just seems so depressing.
So instead I'll purpose a suggestion for all of us to try.
Instead of breaking off during lunch in the usual groups (foreigners on side and Japanese to the other), lets try getting everyone together or at lease mix in with them (its okay if you don't know Japanese, just give it a shot you'll figure out something
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) and try to get to know them more than just the casual gaming acquaintance.
Communication will always be a problem (trust me I know all to well), but getting to know them outside the gaming room in any manner should help you familiarize yourself with them and allow you to feel more comfortable when playing or joking around. If they are as geeky as we are, I'm sure they MUST do other commons things that we undertake as well (board gaming, video games, anime, bunny hunts
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)
I'd be the first to admit that I don't know them as much as I wish and that blame lays squarely on me, as I'm sure everyone else may feel the same way. But even if you are having trouble following along with a conversation or joking seems difficult, try not to give in. In fact, act stupid (most of us will probably need to act though
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) and ask questions on the meaning of words or what they just said. It'll start a context for you to work with and hopefully lead to long and gay relationship
On a side thought, what if we tried getting like once in a while monthly event with them on games other than 40k or WFB where they can show us how to play? I'm sure there will be the need of proxy models and shared rulebooks but I'm sure we can find something that works. The key is finding things that THEY ALSO want to give a go at.
"The question of the timing of the commencement of hostilities is one upon which you must meditate most deeply. Once your decision is arrived at, it must be pursued with the utmost energy."
The 37th Meditation on the Way of the Warrior